August 26, 2010

my grand children and step-grand children


our children married late that is why our grand children are still age 2 years and 5 months (not in the picture) , 1 year and 5 months, 1 year and 3 months. the two older one on our sides are our step grand children.

my 60th birthday



as what i have said "IN MY Life's" blog my real birth date is on the 20th of august 1950 but because my parents registered me one month after i was born, they place 21st instead of 20th to avoid paying surcharge for registering late.

since it falls on Friday and my children and husband are at work, we celebrated it on Saturday.it is just a simple dinner that only the sister of my husband was the one present and my children who are here since my other son is in the united states with his family. we enjoyed the evening especially my two grand children always competing with each other.

August 23, 2010

Hachico the movie and my dogs


watching the movie "HACHICO" a dog tale, made me cry even after watching the movie and even relating the story to my friends. i could not imagine that there really is a dog who's loyalty can't be compared. true, dogs are man's best friend as we usually heard from almost everyone, but this story of HACHICO is a very remarkable one.

i also have dogs, and many died already, i could not even remember them all coz every time they go (died) i look for another as a replacement. but this last that i have started when my daughter bought me a puppy, a male one, a mixed poodle they said. two years after he has a puppy as our share from the female partner. the female puppy grow and have also puppies that i sold to friends, but lately because of the price of the puppies so with the immunizations, some are just good on looking at the puppy being nice without knowing that they have to maintain it to become healthy and good looking puppy.

i have two in my possession, the original puppy and one of her puppy are with me. i love them so much, they such a friendly dogs and is so nice not only to me but to the whole family but.

August 18, 2010

my age 60

when i write my blogs i don't review it many times, because every time i do it my stories will also change same times as i review it. ha ha ha ha. actually what i review are only the wrong spelling that is done by the computer.

or does it says every time i review it , it is also the number of times that my mind changes.

so i wrote what i think then published because if i don't then the topic will fly out of my mind.

is this how my age think? i will turn 60 this coming August 21, 2010.

what i think of my age:

at age - what i thought

20 - age 30 is old

30 - age 40 is older

40 - age 50 is very old

50 - age 60 is too old

60 -

i don't know what to say but i feel i am still young ha ha ha i think only our physical appearance tho aged but our mind only matured.

topics i like

i really like to write topics with regards to our real experience when young.

i have analysed that children should not be teased or threatened that something will happened if ever they have done something unusual like the swallowing of a chewing gum.as a child it would be stressful to think that something will happened to you if you swallowed it. nothing happened to me since it happened only once, tho it also helped the child not to do it again because of fear. it should have been told in a gentle manner for the child not to panic for the consequence, for me tho there is no effect after but the fear is there that shouldn't have been if only it was delivered with extra careful.

children should be handled gently as they only rely to their parents and other person closer to them. whatever these person telling them they believe it is true since it is the first knowledge that they heard.

continuation on children should finished school

i would like to impart to all couples that, before going into making a family, one should bear in mind that they have to be responsible to children they are going to bring to this beautiful world of us. they should help one another to find solution in whatever problems they may encounter while living together, especially when they start having children.

having children is no joke, when you brought one to this world, you (the couple) is answerable to all the expenses of this child till he will reach the age of supporting themselves. i think no need for me to itemized all the needs, that is why it is always a must for the couple to enter marriage at legal age, for them to understand the real responsibility they are going to face. it is a lifetime commitment that no one could go back once you are having children. parents are the only person who could give children their needs till age of reason.

i can say that couples raising children should look back at their childhood, what they have experienced when they were young or still same age of their children. they should remember that children cannot turn to other person other than their parents, if they got someone other than their parents then i can say they are very fortunate to have those person.

when i was young my older cousins or brother and sisters used to teased me. as a child it is natural that i am scared. like for example, i accidentally swallow a bubble gum they told me that it will stick to my stomach. i keep on trying to pull it back from my mouth but to no avail it didn't. so they should haven't told me that kind of joke because they just don't know how stressful it is for me as a child, believing what they said is true.

August 10, 2010

children should finished school

how i felt so successful when finally my four children have graduated and found their own work to support them even in their small needs.

me and my husband have worked mostly on a single proprietorship business, surely when we retired we have not received any single centavo for our old age. But still we can say to ourselves (me and my husband) although we have not prepared for our old age, at least we have spent our money in our four children's schooling till they have finished their course. But we aren't bothered by this situation, at least the children can stand by their own feet, we the parents will surely not be here to help them always. this is the best thing that i thought i come to think when they were still young. and also thankful that the four of them have really finished college religiously.

if we didn't received an amount in our retirement at least our children have works to support each of them, and even helping us if they think we needed additional amount for our medicines.